Gravel bikes typically range from about 7.5kg up to 12.5kg. Under 8.5kg is considered race-weight with a premium build, 8.5–9.5kg is the sweet spot for mid-range gravel bikes, 9.5–11kg covers bikepacking-ready aluminum and steel builds, and anything over 11kg is usually a heavy touring or budget build.
Here's the thing: weight matters far less on a gravel bike than on a road bike. You're already riding wider, heavier tires at lower pressures, and the terrain naturally slows you down. A lighter bike will feel snappier on climbs and accelerations, but the difference becomes negligible once you load up bikepacking bags and gear — which can easily add 5–10kg on its own.
The common trap is obsessing over grams while sacrificing things that actually improve your ride, like tire clearance, mounting points, or a comfortable frame. A 10kg gravel bike that fits your adventure needs will serve you far better than an 8kg one that can't fit the tires or bags you want. Prioritize capability over lightness.